Thursday, 29 September 2011

really can't remember now the order in which things happened on saturday night. i flogged two lovely ladies. quite different experiences because one of the two doesn't like much pain and i'm always conscious of the need to be quite gentle with her. the other enjoys a higher level of pain, though of course i still had to be careful not to hurt her any more than she wanted to be hurt.

we also had a bit of an impromptu needle-play workshop. i got to stick needles in someone for the first time, as well as having needles stuck in me.

the highpoint of the night - in more ways than one - was being tied to the cross. not a saint andrew's cross, but a tall crucifixion-style cross. the feeling is difficult to describe. it wasn't painful or even uncomfortable, my weight was well-supported and evenly distributed, none of the hanging by the arms that makes real crucifixion so painful. but i felt completely helpless and vulnerable, bound naked to the cross - especially when Domina started wrapping cord around my most sensitive bits!

Wednesday, 28 September 2011

later on friday evening, after the flogging demo, Domina tied me up and took me out to the hallway for some 'impact play' - slapping me, shoving me up against the wall, forcing me to the floor, kicking me and dragging me across the floor.

i'm aware this may sound quite brutal to some people, but it really wasn't. i didn't suffer any injuries other than some slight bruising. it was in fact a very pleasurable and erotic experience. i felt helpless, vulnerable, controlled, and i loved it!

Tuesday, 27 September 2011

what an amazing weekend that was! i'm still a bit dizzy from all the excitement, and having a little difficulty putting my memories and feelings into words! i don't think i can describe the weekend in one blog post, i think i'll try to take it one scene at a time.

things got off to an interesting start on friday evening when i was sent to my room to strip for the flogging demo! i've stripped at parties before of course, but being sent to my room to strip and then having to walk back naked into a room full of fully dressed people was a new experience! it was embarrassing and humiliating and yet somehow liberating and empowering all at the same time! i was actually a little disappointed afterwards when Domina told me to go put some clothes on after the demo!

Wednesday, 14 September 2011

just back from the belfast munch. i love belfast munches. they're held in a restaurant on a week night, which makes for a quieter, more chatty social occasion than a weekend pub-based munch.

Tuesday, 13 September 2011

what a weekend that was! a lovely quiet night in with Domina on friday, watching a movie, and then off to twisted leprechaun on saturday! we went to Ropemarks rope bondage workshop and Scott Smith's cbt workshop in the morning. the rope workshop was a lot of fun, the cbt workshop was a bit scary! was funny to see all the women gathering around watching the demonstration with great interest, while the guys cowered in the corners cringing!

after a nice lunch with friends we went to Boss Bondage's play piercing workshop in the afternoon. it was Domina's first experience of needle play and she loved it. it was a first for me too - i've had needles in my back, bum, and back of my thighs before, but this was the first time i'd had them in my breast. it was a very different experience to be able to see the needles going in, and to be able to look into Domina's eyes as they went in.

after dinner and a little nap we went to the twisted leprechaun play party. i got spanked and flogged and led around on a collar and leash with my hands tied behind my back - a long-standing fantasy finally come true!