J and six other friends from northern ireland arrived down for nimhneach yesterday. they rented an apartment for the night. i met them there, got changed, and we walked to the club together. the apartment was near the north end of o'connell street and the academy (the venue for nimhneach) is near the south end of o'connell street, so we walked pretty much the whole length of o'connell street. this was a first for me. usually we get a taxi to the academy and the furthest i walk outside is across the street from the taxi into the club.

i had very mixed feelings about the walk. it was a liberating feeling to be out there in a dress, but scary too. i wanted to get to the club quickly. but some of the others needed cash, so we stopped at an a.t.m. of course there had to be some drunk guy at the head of the queue, who was apparently determined to break the world record for taking the longest time to take money out of an a.t.m! luckily for me, our little troupe included four lovely ladies in corsets and fishnets. everyone was far too busy ogling them to pay any attention to me!

at the club J put a neck-to-wrist restraint on me. i'd told her this was one of my fantasies. J, ever thoughtful, declined to restrain my hands behind my back, in case i might hurt myself if i fell. so she fastened the cuffs in front of me instead. we had a couple of drinks, chatted with some friends, and then J led me to the frame in the back room for some spanking and flogging.

i surprised myself by slipping into sub-space quite easily. after the experience last week, when i went deeper than i ever had before, it's almost as though subspace is a place and i've learned the way, and know how to get back there now. J led me to a seat afterwards and cuddled me until i was ready to come back. friends approached me afterwards checking that i was ok, commenting that i'd been on the frame for a long time and taken quite a beating. i was quite surprised, it didn't feel to me like a long time or an unusually intense session.

it was nice to have friends looking out for me, but not really necessary when i'm with J. she knows me well, knows what i can take and how to read my signals. i'm safe in her care.

when i was ready to come back down to earth, we socialised some more, and danced a bit. dancing in a neck to wrist restraint was another new experience! it was a bit strange at first, but i managed! my feet began to hurt and i had to take my heels off and dance barefoot. this made me pretty much one of the smallest people in the room, the girls in their heels were towering over me! J got flogged too, and i got to cuddle her this time.

when the club closed, we walked back to the apartment, stopping off for burgers and chips on the way. i got to give A a foot rub. it's always nice to make a girl go 'ooh', even if it's only by rubbing her feet! and then J and i retired to one of the bedrooms, and what happened there i will leave to your imaginations - even a kinky exhibitionist has to keep a few little secrets after all!