getting to that 'can't think about anything else' stage again. chastity focuses the mind wonderfully. want to ensure that your lover thinks about you several times a day? control her orgasms. trust me, she'll think of you!

J is coming to my place for the weekend! this of course does not mean that an orgasm is guaranteed. well, not for me, anyway. i can only hope that she's joking about february!

i'm pretty much guaranteed a good flogging, at least. and i haven't had one of those in two weeks, either. J also mentioned bringing needles, so more needle play would appear to be on the agenda. more scarily, she says she's bringing the humbler!

eep!