had a lovely dinner with G and S on sunday night. we got to talking about an upcoming needle-play workshop and how we thought that would be different from one-to-one needle play. i described how, when J inserts a needle, i can whimper and not feel the least bit self-conscious about it. because girls are allowed to whimper. and when i'm with J i'm all girl, and that whole male machismo thing just isn't there. it would be much more difficult to get into that mind-frame at a workshop.

the other thing on which G and i agreed is that we need after-care after needle play. if you're gonna stick needles in us, you damn well better make time to cuddle with us afterwards!